by AllaG on February 15, 2010
If a man does not give compliments to his beloved woman, how is she supposed to know that he loves her? Goes without saying, it’s what people do, not what they say. But giving compliments to a woman, it’s what men have been doing for centuries. What’s the purpose of a compliment? To make the woman smile and make her feel terrific and sexy. Flirting without compliments? Nah, that won’t fly.
So, what is a perfect compliment for a woman? Whatever you decide to say, do not think of sex only. A lot of women are educated, sharp, have a great sense of humor and they want men to appreciate that. Women want to feel sexy, but they do not want to be treated as sex objects. Tough situation! Let’s take a minute now and talk about how to compliment a woman in a way that pleases her.
People love to be complimented about things that they have actually done. So, in the case of complimenting a woman’s appearance, it is desirable to compliment how she looks and her style as well. May be you are impressed by the colors she is wearing? Tell her about it. I always chuckle when I hear: ‘I love your dress!’. I always ask a question, but not necessarily out loud: ‘Who do you compliment? My dress designer or me?’ Compliment the woman as much as you want about the way she looks, the way she talks, the way she walks, her style, her sense of humor. It is always proper to say if you feel this way “Wow, I am impressed. You are a great conversationalist. I had no idea you were such an expert in…’. Showing her that you like her not only because she is a beautiful woman but also a great person as well. That’s big in that woman’s mind. On the other hand, a lot of women I know love the compliments that appeal to their vanity. Go figure!
Happy Valentine Day! Lots of kisses!
by AllaG on February 3, 2010
Being a western man, you probably ask yourself questions about impressing Beautiful Russian Women. I was born and raised in Ukraine. I know the traditions and culture of Russia and Ukraine. Here are some tips:
Valentine Day Tips
- Do not be a slob. Women can not stand it. Russian ladies and Ukrainian women appreciate a clean shaven, neat looking man. Any woman in the world appreciates that. Although, men with stubble are rated by women lately as tough, mature, best romantic partners for a fling or a long-term relationship. Go figure!
- Wear a suit. Jeans are good, but wearing a suit is still very much popular in Russia. Men wear suits on various occasions. Suit is not only a business attire. Men order custom made suits and love to wear them. I recently learned that not every man in USA owns a suit, not because he is poor, but because he is not comfortable wearing a suit.
- Some men claim they have 3 legs and refuse to dance. When I hear that funny statement, I understand that he simply needs to take some dancing lessons. How about doing something outstanding for that special woman this coming Valentine Day – taking dancing lessons, dressing up and inviting your girl to a ballroom dance? You can not wear jeans for that event, you know that. In Europe people celebrate International Women’s Day on March 8.
- Smell good. Russian girls do not have allergies to good smelling men!
- Chivalry is not dead! I personally know some women in USA that try to interpret chivalry as a discrimination against women. Ridiculous!!! Forget it! Chivalry is not dead and never will be! Chivalry is alive and well, especially in Russia, Ukraine and Europe in general. It is needed by all women in the world. Every man needs to be aware of the Code of Chivalry. If you are not chivalrous with a Beautiful Russian Lady or – you are done with her. I am persuaded.
- I hope you admire the woman you are seeing. Tell her about it. She will love it. If you bring her a flower or a bouquet of flowers – she will understand it even better.
- Take your wits with you on a date. Keep things light and humorous. It really helps.
- Russian women are educated, intelligent and smart. Today 11 year secondary education is compulsory in Russia. A lot of women have college education. Majority of women work. These gorgeous women are looking for intelligent men. Make sure, she knows about your background. Just don’t be boring about it by going into too many details all at once.
- I heard the word ‘subservient’ mentioned as a description of Russian women. If you are thinking along these lines about Russian ladies – you seriously need to clear your head. Russian Women are independent, resourceful, responsible, mature and confident while being so desirable. Understanding it – sure way to impress the woman.
Do you have that special woman to kiss this Valentine Day? Not yet? You can fix that proble. The ladies are eager to meet YOU!
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Don’t forget chocolate and eau de parfume. Russian girls looooove French parfums. It makes them feel sexy and desirable. If you ever wonder why French, just ask.
by AllaG on December 12, 2009
550 000 searches for ‘Russian Women’ in global monthly search volume on Google.com These digits speak loud and clear. Western men are very interested in Russian wives.
What is the reason for that? Russian and Ukrainian women are known to be great wives, besides the fact that they are gorgeous.
Western Men Are Searching For Russian Women
If you are searching for a faithful, marriage-minded, loyal and family oriented attractive and passionate lady for marriage, the love of your life – you might very well find what you are looking for among young Russian girls, Ukraine women and Ukraine girls. These girls and women are for marriage. They were brought up by their mothers with a notion that one day they would become great mothers.
Statistics show that the number of ladies in Eastern Europe exceeds the quantity of men, so they extend their search for husbands to other countries.
Modern technology allows people to mix and match. Today it is so easy to sign for an account with a Russian marriage agency or Ukrainian dating agency and start meeting beautiful women. Internet dating now considered to be one of the most effective means of meeting a husband or wife. Don’t you agree? One of the most prominent international dating sites today in international matchmaking is Anastasiadate.com
Best Russian Ladies
Anastasia is a girl’s name. It is very popular these days. If you ever meet a girl by the name ‘Anastasia’ – call her ’Nastenka’. It’s a term of endearment. She will be delighted.
You can find photos and start communicating with these beautiful women right away. Just keep in mind, that one day you will have to get on the plane and go for a visit to Russia or Ukraine to meet your beautiful bride. That trip is going to be exciting!
I will not speak about scams here. There are plenty of them going on. Today people are aware of them and are alerted.
Some words of general caution to guys: don’t lose your head over the beauty of a woman. Look into her heart: what kind of a person is she? Is she a spoiled brat? Life is long and everything happens. You want to have a friend by your side, for better or for worse, through thick and thin. The ‘thin’ part happens much more often than we want it to happen. Besides, when beauty fades, human part stays with you throughout the life.
What kind of relationship are you going to have when you date or marry a beautiful Russian woman or Ukranian woman?
Dating a Russian woman is a pleasure. If this is the right woman for you, if you are willing to work on the relationship, if you develop a great mutual understanding – you might be truly rewarded by getting your best friend, a passionate romantic lover, sincere companion for life, a great mother for your children and an educated person who is a quick learner and a hard-working person as well. One of the best rewards for you could be – true eternal love for you, the most important man in that woman’s life. All you need to do, is take action, join an international dating service and search for that sexy woman. You will find that single Russian or Ukranian woman of your dream.
And let me tell you: Russian and Ukrainian Women are Hot!
by AllaG on December 10, 2009
The other day I had lunch with a friend of mine. She told me that she was dating a guy for the wrong reasons. That puzzled me. As she was telling me the story, I understood what she meant.
They started dating and little by little Natalie realized that Michael was not the person she would really like to date. She told me she caught herself many times trying to change things about Michael. She did not think he was smart enough, educated enough, she did not like his table manners. She continued complaining about Michael for a long time. My question to Natalie was ‘Why do you stay together? To my surprise Natalie told me that she got used to Michael and did not want to be alone, with no boyfriend to lean on. From my point of view, that’s a totally wrong reason to date.
Often, instead of just leaving, we stay in the relationship. Sometimes we stay in the relationship because of the false sense of obligation towards the other person. But most of all we stay in the relationship for selfish reasons, it is very convenient for us to stay where we are and not to change anything, less troubles. Sounds familiar?
If this is the case, let me ask you a question: are you really happy in this relationship? Majority will answer ‘No’.
Staying in the ‘just OK’ relationship is stopping both of you from finding true love.
If you do or say some of the things outlined below, you may be stopping the person you are with from finding true happiness with someone that wants to be with them just as they are.
Do you constantly try to change things about the person you are with even though they are fine just the way they are?
- Do you constantly complain about the things the person you are seeing does?
- Do you actively plan for the day when you are no longer with the person?
That’s a definite ‘no-no’. People in happy relationships don’t plan for the time after the relationship ends. That’s not fair to either of you.
- Do you constantly complain about how the person you are with doesn’t understand or get who you are or what you need. Let’s face it: if this is the case, you don’t have meeting of the minds. That’s really a great experience when you can finish what the other person wants to say, when you know what he is thinking and can offer solutions to the problems he is fighting. Yes, it does happen. I had this type of relationship with my late husband. To tell you the truth, I think it happens very seldom. Any other thoughts on the subject?
- When the person you are seeing does something that you find distasteful, do you immediately think about how you should not be with them? When you are seeing someone that you don’t really want to be with, they are bound to do things that you don’t like. It could be something as simple as the way they eat spaghetti, the way they speak, how they brush their teeth, you get the idea.
Often, they aren’t even aware that you really don’t want to be in the relationship and it isn’t fair to stay when you know the truth about how you feel. Staying in the relationship is a cowardly move on your part and it stops yourself and the person you are with from finding true happiness.
by AllaG on December 6, 2009
Shyness can come across as modesty. Shy man avoids being the center of attention. Shyness can be “adorable” and appealing to the opposite sex. While it might seem like women want the confident guy who thinks he’s God’s gift to womankind, many ladies love shy quiet guy that listens more than he speaks — and thinks twice before speaking at all. This is partly true; shyness can be attractive, but of course, too much of anything is never good.
Women also like the challenge of cracking open the reserved guy. We know there’s a wild animal lurking inside that innocent guy who is hiding behind a smile. It’s common for women to take pride in successfully breaking a guy out of his shell and making him wild for her eyes only.
Men Always Chased Women
Some men claim that they love being chased by women. Historically, it has always been the other way around: men chased women. And let me tell you: women love being chased by men. Of course, I am not speaking on behalf of all women. I always express my personal opinion and opinion of those women I happen to know personally. But I know a lot of women.
Do shy men enjoy being shy? As far as I know, they don’t. Most shy people would shed their shyness in an instant if they could. Some people say, that shedding shyness is harder than quitting smoking or drinking. If it was easy to get rid of shyness, there wouldn’t be any shy people in the world.
One of the reasons for shyness is fear of rejection. Can people always expect to be accepted and admired? No, it’s not realistic. Dealing with rejection, finding ways to be accepted, to be appealing to the opposite sex – this is the fact every person, a man or a woman, has to come to terms with.
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Snap Out Of It!
Being shy can become downright annoying after a while. How do you get over being shy and overcome social anxiety? There are hundreds of manuals and tips about it written. My personal advice: snap out of it! Oh, yes, it’s easier said then done. Nevertheless:
- Find a girl you are attracted to.
- Find out what she likes. Are you interested in the same things she is? If the answer is ‘yes’, that creates a common background and makes it easier to start a friendship/relationship.
- Take a deep breath, approach the girl and start talking to her about something that interests both of you.
- Order a T-Shirt and write ‘Shy Man Fighting Shyness! Help Me! Love Me!’. These words will put a smile on any woman’s face. A smile – what a way to start a relationship!
Is she showing you signs of interest? Not yet? Try again. Pay attention to her, make efforts. Women loooooove attention and they love to be chased and flirted with!
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