Fine Art Of Complimenting a Woman

by AllaG

in How To Get a Woman

complimenting a woman

If a man does not give compliments to his beloved woman, how is she supposed to know that he loves her? Goes without saying, it’s what people do, not what they say. But giving compliments to a woman, it’s what men have been doing for centuries. What’s the purpose of a compliment? To make the woman smile and make her feel terrific and sexy. Flirting without compliments? Nah, that won’t fly.

Complimenting a Woman Goes a Long Way

So, what is a perfect compliment for a woman? Whatever you decide to say, do not think of sex only. A lot of women are educated, sharp, have a great sense of humor and they want men to appreciate that. Women want to feel sexy, but they do not want to be treated as sex objects.  Tough situation! Let’s take a minute now and talk about how to compliment a woman in a way that pleases her.

Complimenting a Woman Is the First Step To Getting  the Woman

People love to be complimented on their accomplishments. Women love to be complimented on how great they look, on being stylish, being good mothers, great friends, having an interesting occupation.

May be you are impressed by the colors she is wearing and how great these colors look on her? Tell her about it. I always chuckle when I hear: ‘I love your dress!’. I always ask a question, but not necessarily out loud: ‘Who do you compliment? My dress designer or me?’ If you want to compliment how she looks wearing that dress, tell her: I love how that dress looks on you, how it makes you even more beautiful’.

Compliment the woman as much as you want about the way she looks, the way she talks, the way she walks. Compliment her style, her sense of humor. It is always proper to say if you feel this way “Wow, I am impressed. You are a great conversationalist. I had no idea you were such an expert in…’. She will know that you are sincere and will appreciate it.

Showing her that you like her not only because she is a beautiful woman but also a smart person or an expert – that’s classy. On the other hand, a lot of women I know love the compliments that appeal to their vanity. Go figure!

 

 

Are YOU Dating For the Wrong Reasons?

by AllaG

in Uncategorized

The other day I had lunch with a friend of mine. She told me that she was dating a guy for the wrong reasons. That puzzled me. As she was telling me the story, I understood what she meant.

They started dating and little by little Natalie realized that Michael was not the person she would really like to date. She told me she caught herself many times trying to change things about Michael. She did not think he was smart enough, educated enough, she did not like his table manners. She continued complaining about Michael for a long time. My question to Natalie was ‘Why do you stay together? To my surprise Natalie told me that she got used to Michael and did not want to be alone, with no boyfriend to lean on. From my point of view, that’s a totally wrong reason to date.

Often, instead of just leaving, we stay in the relationship. Sometimes we stay in the relationship because of the false sense of obligation towards the other person. But most of all we stay in the relationship for selfish reasons, it is very convenient for us to stay where we are and not to change anything, less troubles. Sounds familiar?
If this is the case, let me ask you a question: are you really happy in this relationship? Majority will answer ‘No’.

Staying in the ‘just OK’ relationship is stopping both of you from finding true love.

If  you do or say some of the things outlined below, you may be stopping the person you are with from finding true happiness with someone that wants to be with them just as they are.

Do you constantly try to change things about the person you are with even though they are fine just the way they are?

  • Do you constantly complain about the things the person you are seeing does?
  • Do you actively plan for the day when you are no longer with the person?

That’s a definite ‘no-no’. People in happy relationships don’t plan for the time after the relationship ends. That’s not fair to either of you.

  • Do you constantly complain about how the person you are with doesn’t understand or get who you are or what you need. Let’s face it: if this is the case, you don’t have meeting of the minds. That’s really a great experience when you can finish what the other person wants to say, when you know what he is thinking and can offer solutions to the problems he is fighting. Yes, it does happen. I had this type of relationship with my late husband. To tell you the truth, I think it happens very seldom. Any other thoughts on the subject?
  • When the person you are seeing does something that you find distasteful, do you immediately think about how you should not be with them? When you are seeing someone that you don’t really want to be with, they are bound to do things that you don’t like. It could be something as simple as the way they eat spaghetti, the way they speak, how they brush their teeth, you get the idea.

Often, they aren’t even aware that you really don’t want to be in the relationship and it isn’t fair to stay when you know the truth about how you feel. Staying in the relationship is a cowardly move on your part and it stops yourself and the person you are with from finding true happiness.

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Shy Men!!! Hot Women Love To Be Chased – Did You Know That?

by AllaG

in shy men

Shyness can come across as modesty.  Shy man avoids being the center of attention.    Shyness can be “adorable” and appealing to the opposite sex. While it might seem like women want the confident guy who thinks he’s God’s gift to womankind, many ladies love shy quiet guy that listens more than he speaks — and thinks twice before speaking at all. This is partly true; shyness can be attractive, but of course, too much of anything is never good.

Women also like the challenge of cracking open the reserved guy. We know there’s a wild animal lurking inside that innocent guy who is hiding behind a smile. It’s common for women to take pride in successfully breaking a guy out of his shell and making him wild for her eyes only.

Men Always Chased Women

Some men claim that they love being chased by women. Historically, it has always been the other way around: men chased women. And let me tell you: women love being chased by men. Of course, I am not speaking on behalf of all women. I always express my personal opinion and opinion of those women I happen to know personally. But I know a lot of women.

Do shy men enjoy being shy? As far as I know, they don’t. Most shy people would shed their shyness in an instant if they could. Some people say, that shedding shyness is harder than quitting smoking or drinking. If it was easy to get rid of shyness, there wouldn’t be any shy people in the world.

One of the reasons for shyness is fear of rejection. Can people always expect to be accepted and admired? No, it’s not realistic. Dealing with rejection, finding ways to be accepted, to be appealing to the opposite sex  – this is the fact every person, a man or a woman, has to come to terms with.

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Snap Out Of It!

Being shy can become downright annoying after a while. How do you get over being shy and overcome social anxiety? There are hundreds of manuals and tips about it written. My personal advice: snap out of it! Oh, yes, it’s easier said then done. Nevertheless:

  • Find a girl you are attracted to.
  • Find out what she likes. Are you interested in the same things she is? If the answer is ‘yes’, that creates a common background and makes it easier to start a friendship/relationship.
  • Take a deep breath, approach the girl and start talking to her about something that  interests both of you.
  • Order a T-Shirt and write ‘Shy Man Fighting Shyness! Help Me! Love Me!’. These words will put a smile on any woman’s face. A smile – what a way to start a relationship!

Is she showing you signs of interest? Not yet?  Try again. Pay attention to her, make efforts. Women loooooove attention and they love to be chased and flirted with!

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Talking To Beautiful Women

by AllaG

in hot women, women

What happens when you see a hot woman? Does your tongue get stuck in your mouth and you want to talk to her but cannot say a word? Do you get that numb feeling in your stomach that goes up and up and the reaches your head? And what about your knees? Do they start trembling? Have you ever had trouble talking to beautiful women?
It sounds like you are having anxiety when you are talking to beautiful women. It is not easy for men and it is normal. Many men told me they felt like that. Would you like to get better results with women? Would you like to talk to truly phenomenal women that come from all walks of life?

‘How’ and ‘where’ to pick up beautiful women

These questions fascinated men since the dawn of time. What is interesting, there are no changes in that area ever since the human mankind remembers. Not all men realize that women actually want men to make the first move. That’s how it was for a very long time.
Ok, so it’s late, everyone is leaving and you’ve spotted a stunning woman at the end of the bar. What do you do? Well there are certain things that will work with every woman.

4 Tips Talking To Beautiful WomenThis tips will get you on your way:• First, you must actually go up and speak to her. Sounds obvious, I know but this is where a lot of us fail• Be Relaxed – If you’re relaxed, she’ll be relaxed. The last thing you need right now is tension in the air• Be happy – All people like happy people, especially women. No-one wants to hang around someone who’s miserable   or angry

  • First, you must actually go up and speak to her. Sounds obvious, I know but this is where a lot of us fail
  • Be Relaxed – If you’re relaxed, she’ll be relaxed. The last thing you need right now is tension in the air
  • Be happy – All people like happy people, especially women. No-one wants to hang around someone who’s miserable or angry
  • Be Fun – Women like being around fun people. If you’re witty, charming and fun you have every chance of getting her where you want her

So there you have it, 4 straightforward ways you can get yourself in with a realistic chance of going home with that stunner at the end of the night. You’re now one step closer to knowing how to pick up beautiful women.

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